At a show last weekend someone came up to me and said “Hey, are you still writing your Thursday Thoughts?”
I assured them I still was and that I post them regularly on my website. Turns out, he used to see them weekly on Facebook and wasn’t seeing them anymore.
As a result of my push to get off of social media and limit my screen time, it appears that FB has punished me with limited visibility. It seems stupid that an app designed to connect us all controls how connected we can be.
So yes, I’m still writing Thursday Thoughts. And yes, I’ll keep sharing them on social media. But if you want to make sure you never miss a post I set up a mailing list so you can get these essays delivered straight to your inbox every Thursday.
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I’m going to be shifting my approach to Thursday Thoughts over the next several months. I want to share helpful, digestible content that is useful to you - along with my existing personal essays about life on the road. And I want to make sure you see it, so do me a favor and click the button below to sign up:
I’ve been thinking lately about finishing projects.
I just ordered a new mattress and it sat in a warehouse for a week until I called to follow up. Then, out of the blue, the company did a same-day delivery. An otherwise perfect shopping experience was clouded by an unorganized, slow shipping process.
If you’re going to do something, then go all the way. Finish the damn thing!
Promise something and deliver. Simple as that.
If I hadn’t called I’m pretty sure the mattress would still be on a truck somewhere. It’s almost like the company worked really hard to get my business then stopped providing good customer service once I was a customer.
Shouldn’t it be the other way around?
You should work hard to get a customer, then work even harder once they’ve trusted you with their business. Customer service should be for the entire transaction - not just for the start of things.
This got me thinking about some of my own personal projects…
For instance, I’ve written a few TV episodes and a couple years ago I tried to get them picked up. I had a dozen meetings with agents, then with production companies, then with networks. The process dragged on for a year and amounted to nothing. So I thought to myself: “Why don’t I just make this myself?”
So I started rewriting it for a more run-and-gun, guerrilla style shoot. Then I started planning and preparing. And now…I’m just sitting on it.
Why? I don’t know.
Maybe because it’s easier to keep thinking about the thing instead of actually following through. If I keep brainstorming then it’s like I’m tricking myself into working on it, without having to face criticism, failure, or even a successful reception.
Maybe it’s because I know I’m good at one thing but not another. And it’s easier to put it off than embrace being an amateur.
Or, maybe I’m just a quitter. It's easy to get discouraged after you spend so long trying to accomplish something.
I think all of those might be true. But I don’t want an idea - good or bad- to be left undone. So I’m gonna finish the damn thing. I’m gonna make it happen. I’ve done everything else, so I need to see it through to the end.
Otherwise, the idea might as well be rolling around on a truck somewhere with no expected delivery date.
Here’s something you should try:
This year, I’ve been writing to people that inspire me. I’ve written to authors, designers, friends, actors, etc. I’ve written to people overseas and down the block. Anytime I say to myself “Wow, this person is fascinating!” I make a mental note to let them know I feel that way.
When I say write, I don’t mean social media. I mean actually writing a letter.
I prefer my typewriter, if possible. If I can’t find a mailing address then I write a brief e-mail.
I usually just say a few things about how the person has inspired me, how I found their work, and what it means to me.
The return rate is amazing. Every single person has gotten back to me. Sometimes it’s a quick sentence or two, but typically it’s a much longer response.
I love sending something meaningful off and wondering if I’ll get anything back. When it does arrive, there’s a magical, mysterious quality to it.
It means that somewhere in the world, this person that inspired me felt compelled to write back. They had to sit down and actively think about their response instead of clicking “like” on a screen. They had to actually take the time to respond.
Here’s what I’ve been reading:
• The Power of Moments - As a person who creates memorable moments for a living, I find this book fascinating. But it’s useful for anyone looking to create meaningful moments in their everyday life.
• Educated - I can’t believe it took me so long to start reading this. It’s unbelievably good.
• The Coddling of the American Mind - Really enjoying this and perfectly suited to our current political climate.
If you’re on Spotify here are some summer vibes for you: